SEN support
Every mainstream school has a duty to provide SEN support. This is what to ask the SENCO for, in writing.
School or nursery isn't working
Whether your child is dreading mornings, masking all day and crashing at home, or being told they 'present fine in class' — there is a structured way through this.
This is months of work, not weeks. You do not need a diagnosis for any of it.
EHCP — what it is
An EHCP is a legally binding document. Most parents apply themselves; the school does not need to agree.
Meetings
Take the question sheet. Take notes. Send a follow-up email with what was agreed and the dates. This is not adversarial — it is how decisions become real.
Evidence
Specific examples beat general statements. Two weeks of observation notes from home, plus anything from school, is usually enough to start.
Reasonable adjustments
Quiet space at break, ear defenders, visual timetable, leaving class two minutes early. These do not need an EHCP.